Former Account Holder This Person Goes “Wild” For Pre-Cum Hey, I can't speak for all women, but I go absolutely wild for pre-cum. So dont be ashamed or anything, its not gross, its not immature, it's adorable and sexy :) I mean, wouldnt you find it hot when the girl you're fucking (or kissing, or caressing) is dripping wet? It's the best reward, the best compliment- hey, I desire you so fucking much that's what it says. PeopleImages/E+/Getty Images Honestly when my partner is so excited that he literally dribbles precum all over me and the sheets, I find it so sexy. If you have a 'problem' with pre-cum, your boyfriend does, or you're just a human who's interested in this stuff (like I am), I highly recommend you give these responses a read. Pre-cum on the vulva (or on your hands and then on your vulva) is thought to be less risky than on the penis and into the orifice, but also not no risk.” Because if the person is ready for a condom, they are likely already experiencing pre-cum, and they probably got some on the tip of the condom if you go ahead and use it, the pre-cum will get inside your partner. And if you do use a condom but start it out the wrong way (so it can't roll down the penis), toss it and get a new one. She adds, “This means that the pull-out method without a condom is not safe or efficacious enough to reliably prevent pregnancy or STIs. (The first two can help prevent pregnancy, the last two can help prevent HIV.) Oh, and chlamydia, gonorrhea and hepatitis B are also potentially passed via pre-cum-only condoms help with those STIs.” Contraception, condoms, and Truvada are options for those who want to avoid pregnancy and HIV. “In both these cases, risk is lower than with semen - but it is not zero. “Pre-cum generally lets you know that the person is erotically engaged and whatever sexy stuff is happening is working for them.”Īnd just so you know… “Pre-cum can contain live sperm (if there were any in the urethra as it passed though, anyway) - hence it could pose a pregnancy risk to some, and it is thought that it is capable of passing HIV between people,” Queen warns. “Arousal (that you want to be around) is sexy!” Queen says. Pre-cum is a turn-on, in short, because it does signal arousal. And the answer to the question “do women like cum?” is a resounding yes. So he turned to the good women of Reddit to see what they thought. As you can tell by the post, this guy is bugging out pretty hard.Ĭlearly, this is a sore subject for him. You know, just one of those things the opposite sex will literally never care about, but we, for some reason, build up way too high in our heads. Or at least this one guy does, enough to post about it on Reddit. They may even find themselves asking “do girls like cum?” in all of its stages in this case, pre. In the same way that some girls worry that their nipples are weird or that they discharge “too much,” guys can be insecure about their bodies during sex, too. I'm particularly interested in how gross women on here would find that, or if you wouldn't see it as a big deal. I haven't had many partners as it is, but this really puts me off wanting to go far enough with anyone for them to notice.

I'm sure people are going to say it's fine and not to worry, but this has totally destroyed my confidence over the years (I'm 33). If myself and whoever are naked then it'll just be embarrassingly dribbling on them/the bed/whatever.

Obviously, the longer anything continues, the more gets produced. It can easily show as a wet spot on my trousers/jeans within minutes. It's hard to give an idea of exactly how much there is. This is perfectly 'normal' for me but it makes me so self-conscious. Just yesterday I was kissing someone (first time in a while, go me!) and after those 2 or 3 minutes my boxers were saturated and it was running down my leg. But then I saw this post about pre-cum on Reddit: Is my pre-cum issue as big a deal as I think it is? As soon as I even start kissing, my pre-cum production goes haywire. “It signals arousal - that the person is on the way to getting turned on enough to ejaculate,” Queen says, though she also notes that while might not happen for a number of reasons, pre-cum usually does appear when someone is turned on.īut it wasn't until extremely recently (like, give or take 30 minutes ago) that I realized pre-cum was something that could even be potentially embarrassing. Carol Queen, pre-cum, also known as pre-ejaculate, “is a fairly thin, slippery, clear fluid that seeps out of a penis prior to ejaculation.” Some people make an amount you can notice, she says, and other people make less.

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I'm not a man, so it's not an issue I come across regularly. I have to be honest with you: I really have not invested much time into thinking about pre-cum.

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